The Rational Male di Rollo Tomassi.
Inviato: 30/11/2020, 18:12
Sto leggendo questo interessante libro che nel mondo anglosassone è considerato la Bibbia della Redpill. L'autore tratta certi argomenti fin dai primi anni duemila ed ha un pensiero molto elaborato e raffinato, difficilissimo da scardinare.
Metto qui il link per chi volesse scaricare e leggere il PDF, io sono a pagina 500 circa.
https://1.droppdf.com/files/8Zupo/the-r ... -rollo.pdf
Copio -incollo qui dei passaggi che mi piacciono. Sto raccogliendo tutte le citazioni che mi colpiscono in un documento apposito.
SOUL MATE MYTH
Hypergamy hates the soulmate principle, because the
soul-mate is an absolute
definition, whereas
hypergamy must alway test
for perfection
men will attempt to
turn a whore into a
housewife, or vice versa
In any
relationship, the
person with the most
power is the one who
needs the other the
least.
In the case of a
cheating partner, denial lets
you avoid acknowledging
evidence of your own
humiliation. Short of catching
a spouse in bed with your
best friend, evidence of
infidelity is usually
ambiguous. It’s motivated
skepticism. You’re more
skeptical of things you don’t
want to believe and demand a
higher level of proof
POWER
It’s this ability to make our
own decisions, right or
wrong, and to confidently
own them that separate us
from “other guys.” It’s this
self-guided Power that evokes
a seemingly irrational
confidence to Spin Plates, to
date non-exclusively, to
assert ourselves and to be
unafraid to make ourselves
the prize, and it’s just this
Power that women want to be
associated with
RELATIONSHIPS
The
foundations of a healthy LTR
are laid while you’re single
and dating non-exclusively.
I’ve yet to meet the guy
who’s told me he’s getting
more frequent, more intense
sex after his LTR / Marriage /
Live-in situation was
established.
She enters
your world, not the other way
around
There are methods and social
conventions women have
used for centuries to ensure
that the best male’s genes are
selected and secured with the
best male provisioning she’s
capable of attracting. Ideally
the best Man should
exemplify both, but rarely do
the two exist in the same
male (particularly these days)
so in the interest of achieving
her biological imperative, and
prompted by an innate need
for security, the feminine as a
whole had to develop social
conventions and
methodologies (which change
as her environment and
personal conditions do) to
effect this.
For a woman to best
ensure the survival of her
offspring, a man must
necessarily abandon his
method of reproduction in
favor of her own.
For a female of any
species to facilitate a
methodology for breeding
with the best genetic partner
she’s able to attract and to
ensure her own and her
offspring’s survival with the
best provisioning partner is
an evolutionary jackpot.
There is
no Quality Woman, that’s an
idealization. Some are better
than others of course, but you
don’t find the perfect woman,
you make the perfect woman.
Play the field, do
whatever, but do not commit
even to a girlfriend.
Rather, make a commitment
to yourself, promise yourself
you wont allow yourself to
let emotionality and
conditioned expectations of
monogamy dictate what your
goals
will be or how you’ll achieve
them.
It’s called enlightened selfinterest; you cannot help
anyone until you’ve first
helped yourself.
Done in a frank,
honest, yet indirect way, you
will not be a ‘Player’ and you
will establish yourself as Man
who’s attention is worth a
woman competing for
. Everything a woman
does on a daily basis is
colored by competition
anxiety. Make up, clothing,
shoes (God, the shoes!),
indirect communications with
men and women, social
contrivances, comparing and
evaluating dates and possible
suitors, everything is borne
from this competitive desire
to achieve security with the
best possible guy and make
damn sure the girl next door
doesn’t get him first.
Men
who find themselves in a state
of internal conflict about
abandoning monogamy-asgoal are really confronting a
fundamental shift in their
prior feminine conditioning.
CUCKOLDRY
It’s
important to bear in mind that
in this age women are
ultimately, solely responsible
for the men they choose to
mate with (baring rape of
course) and giving birth to
their children. Men do bear
responsibility for their actions
no doubt, but it is ultimately
the decision of the female and
her judgment that decides her
and her children’s fate
Metto qui il link per chi volesse scaricare e leggere il PDF, io sono a pagina 500 circa.
https://1.droppdf.com/files/8Zupo/the-r ... -rollo.pdf
Copio -incollo qui dei passaggi che mi piacciono. Sto raccogliendo tutte le citazioni che mi colpiscono in un documento apposito.
SOUL MATE MYTH
Hypergamy hates the soulmate principle, because the
soul-mate is an absolute
definition, whereas
hypergamy must alway test
for perfection
men will attempt to
turn a whore into a
housewife, or vice versa
In any
relationship, the
person with the most
power is the one who
needs the other the
least.
In the case of a
cheating partner, denial lets
you avoid acknowledging
evidence of your own
humiliation. Short of catching
a spouse in bed with your
best friend, evidence of
infidelity is usually
ambiguous. It’s motivated
skepticism. You’re more
skeptical of things you don’t
want to believe and demand a
higher level of proof
POWER
It’s this ability to make our
own decisions, right or
wrong, and to confidently
own them that separate us
from “other guys.” It’s this
self-guided Power that evokes
a seemingly irrational
confidence to Spin Plates, to
date non-exclusively, to
assert ourselves and to be
unafraid to make ourselves
the prize, and it’s just this
Power that women want to be
associated with
RELATIONSHIPS
The
foundations of a healthy LTR
are laid while you’re single
and dating non-exclusively.
I’ve yet to meet the guy
who’s told me he’s getting
more frequent, more intense
sex after his LTR / Marriage /
Live-in situation was
established.
She enters
your world, not the other way
around
There are methods and social
conventions women have
used for centuries to ensure
that the best male’s genes are
selected and secured with the
best male provisioning she’s
capable of attracting. Ideally
the best Man should
exemplify both, but rarely do
the two exist in the same
male (particularly these days)
so in the interest of achieving
her biological imperative, and
prompted by an innate need
for security, the feminine as a
whole had to develop social
conventions and
methodologies (which change
as her environment and
personal conditions do) to
effect this.
For a woman to best
ensure the survival of her
offspring, a man must
necessarily abandon his
method of reproduction in
favor of her own.
For a female of any
species to facilitate a
methodology for breeding
with the best genetic partner
she’s able to attract and to
ensure her own and her
offspring’s survival with the
best provisioning partner is
an evolutionary jackpot.
There is
no Quality Woman, that’s an
idealization. Some are better
than others of course, but you
don’t find the perfect woman,
you make the perfect woman.
Play the field, do
whatever, but do not commit
even to a girlfriend.
Rather, make a commitment
to yourself, promise yourself
you wont allow yourself to
let emotionality and
conditioned expectations of
monogamy dictate what your
goals
will be or how you’ll achieve
them.
It’s called enlightened selfinterest; you cannot help
anyone until you’ve first
helped yourself.
Done in a frank,
honest, yet indirect way, you
will not be a ‘Player’ and you
will establish yourself as Man
who’s attention is worth a
woman competing for
. Everything a woman
does on a daily basis is
colored by competition
anxiety. Make up, clothing,
shoes (God, the shoes!),
indirect communications with
men and women, social
contrivances, comparing and
evaluating dates and possible
suitors, everything is borne
from this competitive desire
to achieve security with the
best possible guy and make
damn sure the girl next door
doesn’t get him first.
Men
who find themselves in a state
of internal conflict about
abandoning monogamy-asgoal are really confronting a
fundamental shift in their
prior feminine conditioning.
CUCKOLDRY
It’s
important to bear in mind that
in this age women are
ultimately, solely responsible
for the men they choose to
mate with (baring rape of
course) and giving birth to
their children. Men do bear
responsibility for their actions
no doubt, but it is ultimately
the decision of the female and
her judgment that decides her
and her children’s fate